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Williams® Gulf Coast Realty
13800 Park Blvd. Seminole, FL 33776
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Buyer Report -
How To Make Your Move Easier on Your Family
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People
generally have two kinds of needs during a home purchase. First are the
transactional needs, such as searching for a home, obtaining financing,
negotiating the terms of purchase, completing paperwork and legal
documents, and arranging the move. The second are emotional needs that are
involved in a home purchase, which can be where the most stress occurs in
a home purchase. The following are just a handful of tips to help you and
your family ease the stress of moving.
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| · Prepare your children |
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Although you may have lived in your current residence for just a few
years, the same few years can be half the lifetime of a seven- or
eight-year-old, and can include all the years he or she can remember. Your
current residence may be the only home your children have ever known,
where they feel safe and comfortable. It may be the center of your
childrens' world.
Be sure to announce
the move in a completely positive way. You might talk about how beautiful
the neighborhood is and how good the schools are. Bring your children to
the new house, if you live close enough that it is possible to do so.
Otherwise, positively describe the new house. Find out what your
children's favorite things are in your current home, and then try to
re-create them in the new home. Keep your children actively involved in
the process. For instance, don't just promise that they can decorate their
new rooms, but take them shopping for paint, bedspreads, carpets, and
other items that will make the experience more fun and comforting.
Your children are
bound to have worries, fears, and sorrows during the move. They may be
moving away from friends and family they have known their whole lives.
Find ways to make parting pleasant. You can plan a going-away party and
let your children invite their own guests. Take pictures of everyone and
create a photo album. If your children are old enough, allow them to take
pictures of the neighborhood that they will want to remember.
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| · Gain knowledge |
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You may
feel a sense of being out of control, as though other parties to the
purchase transaction are running the show and you're merely getting in
their way. Your mortgage company, the appraiser, the inspector, and the
seller all have certain powers to approve or disapprove of your overall
plan to purchase this home and move successfully. This is certainly not
easy!
Although this can
feel stressful, one of the best things you can do for your own peace of
mind is to understand as much of the purchase process as possible. Your
Realtor® will be able to prepare you for unknowns ahead of time and tie
down loose ends as soon as possible.
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| · Trust the process |
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There
can be so much to do that it's easy to panic. It may feel like you're
taking a big risk, but the truth is that you're initiating a big
opportunity for you and your family. Even though you can't predict what
will happen every step of the way, your Realtor® helps people buy and sell
homes as a profession! Your Realtor® has been there before and understands
that this is a major upheaval in your life. Trust that your Realtor® is
looking out for you on your way to a successful closing and move.
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| · Be flexible |
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Knowing
that your Realtor® will do everything possible to prepare you for the
various processes involved in your home purchase, and will tie up those
loose ends quickly and efficiently, it's important for you to remember
that there is no such thing as a perfect world. The property inspection
may reveal areas of concern, or closing may be delayed for some reason.
Try to take a deep breath and be flexible in your thinking. You will have
a much greater chance of making your decisions based on logic and not high
emotion.
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| · Seek entertainment |
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Whenever you feel that things are spinning out of control, find a
diversion! Take a walk around your new neighborhood, go on a day trip out
of town with your family, or take your family to a movie. Whatever
diversion or outlet works best for you, this is a good time to engage in
it! Remember to take one "move" at a time. |
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